ok OK. I know it has been forever since I’ve written. I’m sorry. Listen… it has just been a chill
couple of weeks with few grand events outside, but many grand changes that have
gone on inside of me. It may seem kind
of silly that I needed to come all the way to India in order to seriously take
time and ponder about my life. However,
I am a firm believer in shaking things up, living diversely, and exploring
life, which is why I love travelling so much… because each time I go somewhere,
I learn things I never could have learned if I would have stayed in the same
place doing the same things. Putting
yourself in a different situation where you are uncomfortable and have to learn
to live or act in a different way is a great way to open your mind and open your
eyes and see things how they truly are, no longer blinded by the culture that
we so comfortably follow after staying for so long. It really makes you think about your life and
yourself and who you are, and what you’re doing!
So… like I said, we haven’t been out and about a ton
lately. We have gone a few places. I’m
sorry the photos are few. Most of the
places we went to recently I shot almost entirely in film, which is another
reason I haven’t posted recently. But
here are a few from the last couple of weeks…
The other day we celebrated Krishna's birthday! We went to a Hare Krishna festival (yes like the Hare Krishna's in Spanish Fork) and we had to chant 'hare krisha hare krishna krishna krishna hare hare, hare rama hare rama rama rama hare hare' 108 times as we stepped on each one of these stones
this is our vocals teacher performing with his friend... amazing!
Then we went to a Hindu festival for Vishnu's wife who they dressed up as a fish, which was very special because it was the first time this has ever been done!
This is at the Sikh Gurudwara... see the story below :)
Some photos from beach road pretty near to our house... this is a submarine that is now some sort of museum
Now, you are probably wondering why this blog post is called
falling in love. I’m sure you are all
thinking I met someone. Right?? Wrong.
Sorry. No boy/girl love story
here (don’t worry mom!). This one is
much more exciting and deep and real than your average romantic comedy. This is something that is achieved through
work, trial, conflict, discomfort, respect, awe, deep emotion, learning,
change, and those little moments when you stop and look around you and just
take it all in. I am falling absolutely
and deeply in love with the culture
here.
I had an awesome experience the other day. For my project I am speaking with a lot of
gurus from different religions.
Yesterday we went to visit the Sikhs!
It is one of my favorite religions to study. In fact, when I first got here I told Doctor
Nuckolls that I love Sikhism so much if I weren’t LDS and didn’t know the
truthfulness of the gospel, I would probably be a Sikh. He told me that was the first time he had
ever heard that, hah!
These people are INCREDIBLE.
They are so incredibly kind and inviting and soo down to earth. We showed up and about 30 seconds after we
arrived, two ladies showed up. One was a
Sikh, and the other was a Hare Krishna who was from a different province. She is also studying religions all over India
and happened to be in Vizag right now.
We became great friends! :) She told me all about everything she had
learned in Sikhism and how amazingly these people had treated her. You see, she came down to Vizag and on her
way, ALL of her bags got lost. She
arrived with not even 10 rupees. She
knew there was a Sikh Gurduwara (temple) here in Vizag and she found her way to
it, because in her town she had been very close to Punjabi people (where most
of the Sikhs live) and she hoped to find some help there. They took her in, gave her food, clothes, and
paid for her ticket to go back home. She
translated for us all day and it was fun being surrounded by English, Hindi,
Telugu, and Punjabi. We also represented
all different religions… LDS, Hinduism, Hare Krishna, Bramakumares, and
Sikhism. All kinds of different
languages and cultures and religions in that one group, yet we all got along so
well and enjoyed each other’s company so much!
I interviewed the main priest there and they gave us milk and cookies,
and lunch, and performed a little concert for us. I left just feeling so uplifted. As we drove home in the rickshaw, the ladies
that were sharing with us mentioned to Rajyalakshmi our translator that they
had seen us at the Vishnu fish goddess temple the other day. Then another guy got on and we looked at each
other and recognized each other. He
works at Barista—the internet café where I always go. All of the workers know me! So we smiled and waved. We rode home and I watched outside and just
had that feeling, you know? Where
everything is just so good. Where there
is hope for the world. Because there are
some seriously good people, and
differences don’t matter. I felt
incredibly grateful for this time that I have to be here to experience the
things I am experiencing and especially to learn the things that I am learning.
It has been a profound couple of weeks. I have spent SO much time thinking and
pondering. As I have mentioned before, I
love documentaries. Mmmmm. :) So sometimes I get on documentary kicks and just
download a whole bunch and watch them all.
The last couple of weeks I have been watching documentaries (and other
movies) basically every night. I have
randomly become interested in learning about human trafficking, so I have
watched a lot of incredible documentaries about that, along with some other
movies that I have been thinking a lot about.
I want to talk about 3 movies/categories that I have been thinking
about. They all interconnect in certain
ways.




Now, that brings me to the last movie I wanted to talk
about. ‘V for Vendetta’. Ok, not a documentary, I know. But so good. I had seen it before but totally forgot. There are so many controversial things you
can take from that movie, and you can also interpret it in many ways, but there
is one specific thing I want to talk about.
After the movie we had a little debate between the 3 of us on whether it
was right or not for V to torture Evey without her consent and without her
knowing in order for him to teach her a lesson.
There are two quotes he says that I really like. “Artists use lies in
order to tell the truth”, and “There is no certainty—only opportunity”.

ANYWAY, my point is, that there are SOO many options for us
to help out in the world, and make it a better place. But we also have to be careful with what we
choose to do, because sometimes we can think that we are helping when we really
aren’t. Well how do we know?? Studying and researching and observing are
all of course important. We should
carefully weigh out our decisions and think them through beforehand. But at the same time, we are not going to be
perfect. What even is perfection?? No one is perfect. I don’t believe that people are so black and
white… either good or bad. We are all
both good and bad. We are human yet we
are divine. We have good intentions
often and sometimes not-so-good intentions that we usually try to
overcome. Sometimes our actions show our
goodness and sometimes they show our carnality.
So here is what I have concluded.
After realizing that there are SO many ways to help and so many things
to do, I became overwhelmed and honestly kind of just gave on the idea of doing
anything. Why? Because I wanted to make sure that all of my
efforts were worthwhile and that I was doing the best possible thing I could
do. But how was I ever to know? There is always so much more we can learn,
how can we possibly know if what we are doing is the very best thing we can
do? On my mission, this is what I
learned. We do the best we know how, we
consult with the Lord, we trust in Him, and we act. I became so overwhelmed and lost hope so
much that I decided to kind of just give up on it. I became discouraged. I thought “anything I do to try and better
humanity will just be outdone by someone else anyway and won’t really make a
difference”. But the truth is, if I have
the best of intentions, if I research and try to do things the best way I know
how, and if I consult with the Lord, my efforts will never be wasted. There were so many times on my mission where
I wondered if I was doing things right.
Times when some people told me to do one thing but others said to do another,
and my companion and I would feel that we should do something different. So what we did was the best thing we knew how
to do. I came home from my mission
knowing that I was not perfect, but I did the best I knew how with the
abilities that I had. Now, with our
culture and world just spiraling into a state of being totally out of control,
we have a duty. Because we are aware
that there are issues, and we are not happy with them. We may not know the best solution. In fact, we don’t know it! As John Legend says “everybody knows that
nobody really knows just how to make it work” (ok ok so he may be talking about
a relationship, but I think this applies to everything). We are all just perfectly imperfect human
beings as I like to say, trying to do things the way we know best. In V for Vendetta, was it fair what V does to
Evey? Was it moral? Was it humane? No… probably not any of these things. Did it teach her a lesson? Did it change her? Yes it did.
Artists use lies to tell the truth.
But what would have happened if it wouldn’t have worked? Well, that was a possibility. V didn’t know if it would have worked or
not. But the truth is, there is never
certainty… only opportunities. There are
opportunities all around us. We don’t
know if they will work, but we will never know if we don’t try. We don’t know if it is the best thing we can
do, but at least it is something. Now, that doesn’t mean just go along blindly
doing whatever whenever. We can be
smart. But we certainly can’t judge,
because we don’t know peoples’ backgrounds.
An abusive mother perhaps knows no other way of raising a child, because
that’s all she knew herself as a child.
Does that mean an abusive lifestyle is best for the child? Absolutely not. But that also doesn’t mean we should judge
the mother for not knowing very well how to raise her child or not doing a
perfect job at it. We need to give
people the benefit of the doubt. And the
child may resent his mother his whole life, but the truth is, we can’t redo the
past. All we can do is take the
opportunities to do the best we know how and hope that things turn out for the
best. If we trust in the Lord and strive
to follow Him, then things will turn
out for the best. That doesn’t mean we
won’t make mistakes. We have to make mistakes. Those mistakes are not only beneficiary to us
in our growth, but they often lead us to where we need to be in just the way we
needed to be lead.
So, those are my thoughts.
I have been thinking a lot about all of these things, and feel like I
have been learning a lot about myself and my role in the world. I am capable just as anyone else. I am powerful and can make a difference in the world for the better. That doesn’t mean change an entire
nation. It means being an example and a
light for individuals. That is,
after-all, how something is truly changed. A real change is deep-rooted and takes place
in the details. A nation will only
change if each individual changes, and it happens one by one.
I think I have decided what exactly I want to do with my
life. I have been thinking and praying
and fasting, and I’m feeling good. Some
good and exciting things will be happening in the future… :)
If you made it this far, congratulations and thanks for
reading all of my ranting about life and the world and everything else,
hah. I promise all of my blog posts won’t
be novels. It’s just nice to have
somewhere I can somewhat organize my thoughts since they are usually all over
the place in my head. :) Mmmmk until next time.... Peace outtttttttt!
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